How to Become Representable by Your Family Law Attorney
Our stories are a lot like yours. You might be feeling frustrated because your attorney seems irritated, is not returning your calls, and every time you go to court, something goes wrong. Typically, it is your behavior and reactions to matters that you should not react to, especially in family court. We say this because we have been those people. Separate family court cases, but the same issues, we have been the client that the attorney wants to drop. The people losing sleep at night because they have lost their child and, no matter how hard they try or how strong their convictions are, they cannot control themselves during the most pivotal moments in their entire life.
We lost years with our children because of our behavior. It had nothing to do with any of the attorneys or family court judges. It was all on us if someone would’ve been there to tell us how to act what to do. Everything would’ve been different better.. We see this happening all over family court. There is always someone who is on the defensive, and typically they are the maker of their own chaos. We are not diminishing your right to feel emotion or to be sad. But I am telling you there is another way to present yourself, to be useful to your case, and to be defendable and representable. Otherwise, you are wasting your money, your child's time, and your life.
Our approach is very realistic. We do not sugarcoat anything. We will tell you how it is, how you need to act, how to dress, and what classes you need to take. We will make it so your attorney will eventually start taking your calls again. We will make it, so your attorney is proud to walk into court and represent you because you are representable. Are you up for this challenge? Because we are. We have had experience in family court. We have made courtroom blunders, we figured out the correct way by doing everything hard way. We know, we can help you.
We all have challenges and struggles, but we must be accountable. The only thing you are in control of in your entire life is you and your emotions. How you present yourself is the most pivotal and important piece of your family court battle. Competent legal representation is available, but you need to be presentable during the first interview with your attorneys. If they will not stand for you, you are not going to have an attorney. A few things that are irrevocable in fact, it is inappropriate to call your attorney incessantly. You are not the only person going through this. It is their job to sell you on their services, not to hold your hand and make you feel better about the fact that you are getting a divorce. They are there to do the legal work to get your child home, your home back, or whatever legal matters lie in front of you. Your legal counsel is there for the legal part, to make sure the laws of the state of California and the United States Constitution are upheld. They are not there to talk to you about getting your fingernails done prior to court.
We will show you how to be the best client, to be presentable in court. In our short and effective sessions, we will teach you to be organized, and concise, when you have a meeting or phone call with your attorney, keeping you from wasting your time or theirs. Bearing in mind when you speak to your attorney, they do not like emotionally charged conversations, tears, rambling, interruptions, outbursts, etc. Bear in mind that it is a billable syllable. If you want to save your money and yourself from having your attorney yell at you, we are the key to succeeding in court. We will help. Absolutely no one wants to take advice or listen to a person who has not been in their shoes. This is why our approach is so direct and the most successful thing that you will ever do. You will be proud of yourself after you carry out what you have set out to do. We are the key, the other side of your legal representation. A different kind of superhero, we are the “Attorney Allies.” We make you representable, guaranteed.